A study by the University of Chicago concluded that the frequency of sex dwindles by “over 700%” between ages 20-70, but the decline is even more significant among married couples (even those who claim that they are quite happy and wouldn't want a divorce). Another study revealed that 60% of married couples believed that marriage destroyed the excitement of sex. Of course, there are several factors such as children, more responsibility, pressure to earn money, failure to perform in bed by some men (again due to work stress), and finally, sex has become a routine. But you can spice up your bedroom with adult dress up costumes without spending too much money on sex therapists.
Role-playing
Adult fancy dress costumes are always associated with costume parties or Halloween. When you think of the bedroom, the first things that come to mind are sexy lingerie’s or thongs which can be daunting for women with body image issues after giving birth too many children. But there are many ways to skin the cat, so to speak.
There is multiple adult dresses up costumes to choose from in Australia. You can choose from the animal attractions collection and play as a bunney, kittycat, bumblebee or a sexy mermaid. Or you can go as a submissive French maid (which is the most popular costume, by the way) or a military outfit. How about playing as an angel or a fairy bride? Perhaps your husband has a fantasy about Snow White or Sleeping Beauty or any other Disney princesses that you can help realize?
The French maid
A UK study among 4,200 women revealed that about 80% are engaged in role playing with their partners. As already stated, the French maid costume is the most popular with over 4 in 10 women owning or renting the costume for their boyfriends or husbands. The nurse's costume is the second most popular followed by the sexy policewoman's costume.
Promoting intimacy and breaking monotony
Buying adult dress up costumes and engaging in role play strengthen the intimacy between you and your husband. It also encourages spontaneity in order to break the routine of your bedroom habits. It's understandable that sex should dwindle after marriage because the couples are already preoccupied with other concerns other than themselves. There's the tuition for the kids, mortgage of the house and car, savings for the future.
Role playing also encourages communication between the couples because of the endless possibilities of fancy adult dress costumes that they can choose from. If the man is not keen about wearing any costume, the wife can wear the costume but her partner can also be involved in the fantasy by thinking about scenarios or situations that the couple can act out.
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