We know that getting married is a big deal in life, but some people are not very good psychological quality, they tend to have anxiety before getting married, this is the so-called premarital anxiety, do you have premarital anxiety? Let's do a test for premarital anxiety.
Premarital anxiety test:
Please make A self-assessment of the following 20 statements in terms of "highly conformance (A)", "somewhat conformance (B)" and "non-conformance (C)" :
Marriage will limit my freedom.
Getting married puts me in debt.
I am not sure whether I love her or not.
I don't know if he/she is the best one for me.
Marriage will make me lose my personal space.
Getting married will eat up all my savings.
Because of his/her perseverance, I agreed to consider marriage.
If I don't get married, he/she will leave me.
I will lose many friends after getting married.
I dare not tell him I don't like him/her.
My parents asked me to get married as soon as possible.
I haven't had a serious discussion with him or her about life after marriage.
The thought of getting married gives me a headache.
I have been living with him/her for some time.
Marriage is a way of avoiding gossip about my life.
I don't think I can bear the love for him when I get married.
I didn't agree with him/her about getting married.
I hope that by getting married, I can solve my conflict with him/her.
I hope I can continue my life after getting married.
I also love another man/woman.
If the sum of the Numbers of A and B is less than or equal to 3, then you are not afraid to get married.
If the sum of the number of choices (Am) and the number of choices (Bm) is greater than 3, calculate the test score: Sm=Am+(Am+Bm)/2.
If Sm is above 18, you have a serious fear of marriage; If Sm is between 11 and 17, you have some fear of marriage. If Sm is below 10, you have a slight fear of marriage.