Judy Murray: I danced at Andy's wedding

Just days immediately after Andy Murray&#x2019s wedding to his girlfriend Kim Sears, I could never have imagined I&#x2019d be watching his mother, Judy, coaching a bunch of six to eight-year-olds on a mini outside tennis court in Rotherhithe, south-east London. But here she is in the spring sunshine, skinny tracksuited frame set against the glinting skyline of Canary Wharf, corralling youngsters who may well normally be identified pinned to PlayStation four on a child-sized court that appears as if it&#x2019s been assembled from giant pieces of Lego.

It&#x2019s a planet away from the kilts and designer hats of Andy&#x2019s wedding at Dunblane Cathedral final weekend. "Ready?" says Judy, 55, dribbling a ball more than the net towards a little girl holding a tennis racket. "That&#x2019s terrific! Now I&#x2019m going to make it really hard for you. Whoa! Appear at that. We have Maria Sharapova ideal here!"

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When you meet Judy Murray in particular person she&#x2019s quiet and sophisticated with no hint of the bunched fists or bared teeth that characterise her Wimbledon persona. When I ask her how she feels immediately after her son&#x2019s wedding, her hazel eyes mist over. "It was a fantastic day, even with the hail and the snow," she says in her soft Scottish lilt. "There was a lovely atmosphere when we went in and out of the church. The town definitely got behind us with heart-shaped burgers at the butcher&#x2019s and the local pub brewed a unique beer named Togetherness Ale."

Did the lady who delighted the public (but not the judges) in Strictly Come Dancing hit the dance floor on the evening of her son&#x2019s wedding? Who, immediately after all, can forget the sight of this most unsyrupy of mothers dressed in a candy floss pink frock, waltzing to the strains of Let&#x2019s Go Fly A Kite from Mary Poppins? Those of us cursed with two left feet were all gunning for her &#x2013 so did she? "Yes," she says. &#x2018I don&#x2019t believe any of my Strictly dance moves came out but I did."

Judy Murray dances with Anton du Beke in Strictly Come Dancing final year (BBC/Guy Levy)

The show, which aired last year, softened Judy&#x2019s tiger mother image and made her well-known, but didn&#x2019t dent her really like of sport. "As soon as I could walk, my dad [a former footballer] would kick and throw balls at me. All through Judy&#x2019s childhood, she played football, cricket and badminton in the garden with her two younger brothers. "My dad&#x2019s incredibly competitive," she says. "He&#x2019d by no means let us score a aim past him in football which was genuinely annoying. I&#x2019m very like my dad and Andy&#x2019s very like me in that we both hate losing."

Her kids, tennis ace Andy and his older brother Jamie (currently Britain&#x2019s number 1 doubles player), had been brought up in Dunblane in a lot the same way. "I let them attempt everything," says Judy.

Andy with Jamie Murray at the Aegon Championships 2009 (Clive Brunskill/Getty Photos)

Lack of money and the "rubbish weather" generally trapped the family members indoors, which meant that Judy had to summon her inner Blue Peter and do all kinds of ingenious issues with cereal boxes. Her most well-liked invention, "cereal box table tennis", involved the kitchen table, "a ping pong ball that cost 20p", two biscuit tin lids (for rackets) and a net made out of stacked up cereal boxes. "Coordination and balance can all be developed at dwelling," says Judy. "But it desires to be accomplished in a enjoyable, creative way."

From such beginnings, a tennis star worth an estimated £32 million was born. And it&#x2019s Judy who deserves significantly of the credit. But she has not lost touch with her past and what it is to be poor. She is dismayed by the levels of physical inactivity (and obesity) in the UK and determined to do anything about it.

"I&#x2019m a big believer in encouraging parents to get out and be active with their little ones," she explains more than cappuccinos at the nearby Hilton hotel. "All as well normally youngsters sit on their butts playing laptop games but if you can get them getting active at a young age the possibilities are it&#x2019ll stick with them. We need to have parents to recognize that becoming physically literate is as critical as getting capable to read and write."

Judy coaches kids in Rotherhithe, south-east London (Andrew Crowley)

With the aim of obtaining parents and youngsters engaged in tennis, Judy is fronting a campaign referred to as Every person for Tennis that&#x2019s funded by Highland Spring in partnership with the Lawn Tennis Association (LTA). The concept is to get ten,000 families active by the summer time and to make the game open to all, rather than just young children at fee-paying schools. Extra than 2,000 venues now provide mini tennis across Britain and only this month, 200 additional have opened in clubs and parks, all providing free parent and child coaching sessions all through April (just crucial your postcode into playminitennis.com). "I&#x2019m passionate about getting extra individuals playing tennis," says Judy, who&#x2019s been coaching children for 25 years. "But unless you can throw and catch a ball, you&#x2019re not going to be able to play."

But it isn&#x2019t all tennis &#x2013 or not really. Soon after a tip-off from Andy, Judy is now hooked on Homeland, which she watches on her iPad. "I enjoy the intrigue and I&#x2019m dying to see how it finishes," she says. When Andy was house just ahead of the wedding, she produced him his favourite factor: tiny marshmallow "major hats" made with melted Cadbury&#x2019s Dairy Milk, marshmallows and Smarties. "It&#x2019s a kids&#x2019s celebration factor," she says. "The boys constantly ask for it when they come property."

Andy with Judy Murray at the Wimbledon Winners' Ball 2013 (Julian Finney/Getty)

In correct Scots tradition she&#x2019s a cake lover, although her peripatetic life-style signifies she seldom bakes. She likes a good-old fashioned sponge with raspberry jam in the middle and proper icing &#x2013 strictly no buttercream. She&#x2019s also partial to the odd spritzer, which she makes with New Zealand Sauvignon &#x2013 never ever anything else &#x2013 soda water and ice. "That&#x2019s the only issue I drink," she says. "Champagne makes me sleepy.&#x2019

Vices, even innocuous ones, aren&#x2019t actually her game. This is a lady who lives and breathes tennis 24/7 &#x2013 and the nation far better shape up. This weekend she&#x2019s off to Bolton and Birmingham in her black BMW to coach county-level teenage girls. "Between the ages of 14 and 17 we drop a lot of girls," she says sadly. "They drop out of sport and turn into self-conscious."

Will Bolton and Birmingham fall beneath her spell? I saw Judy perform a type of magic on major school young children in Rotherhithe. She connected with them and motivated them in a way I would under no circumstances have expected. If anybody can coax teenage girls away from Topshop, pimply boys and the bathroom mirror &#x2013 and get us all playing tennis &#x2013 it&#x2019s Judy Murray.

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Judy Murray's guidelines to get children into tennis

1. Tennis can be played nearly anywhere. Our initial &#x2018court&#x2019 was our driveway at dwelling, with two chairs and a piece of rope for the net

2. Improvise with everyday objects. When they had been toddlers, Jamie and Andy employed to knock balloons over the sofa in our living room applying their hands or cardboard cut out bats

three. Tennis is a two-sided sport. Make sure your kids understand to throw, catch, roll and kick with left and appropriate limbs

four. Study to serve by playing piñata. Fill a plastic bag with ripped up paper and sweets. Tie a knot in it and loop the knot more than a stick or washing line. Ask kids to run and jump up to smack the piñata with their bats till the bag breaks and the sweets fall out

five. Strengthen aiming skills by placing targets at varying heights/ distances/ directions. Get started by throwing at the closest targets, then move them further away

6. Begin with straightforward, achievable tasks. Develop confidence via results, then make it tougher

Judy Murray is an ambassador for Highland Spring's Every person or Tennis campaign, inspiring a lot more families to get active and appreciate tennis. Discover your nearest participating Highland Spring Mini Tennis venue at playminitennis.com

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