Making Memories

Making MemoriesMaking MemoriesA New Year’s ResolutionNew Year’s Eve is coming fast, and everyone wants someone to kiss when the clock strikes midnight. But if you want to ring in your new year with something truly memorable, you’ll have to think outside the champagne-and-smooch box that all the others are doing. When the party’s over and you’re headed to the bedroom, how are you going to give your guy something special? What can you do to make him think of that night—and want to relive it as much as possible—through the rest of the long, cold winter?That’s easy: you need to add a new dimension. Something you’ve never done before. Sure, you can try a new position, and that may work or it may not. But that’s not quite a new dimension; for that you want to surprise him with something he’s never seen or done before. Not only that, but you need to make it about him.Men are so visual. Oh yes, they love to be touched, too, but the true way to his heart is through his eyes. When you realize this and consciously make visual elements a major aspect of your foreplay and lovemaking, you are honoring his sexuality to the fullest because you are working with it and not against it. You are showing your devotion to your man by making sex about his pleasures and needs rather than your own. That’s what makes for the kind o f truly passionate sex that deepens the bonds of your relationship and creates lasting memories.When you make a New Year’s resolution to combine this kind of giving attitude in the bedroom with a new idea for enhancing his pleasure, you can’t help but connect on a very deep level. You can bet you’ll be on his mind long after the act is over—when he’s driving to work, when he’s mowing the lawn, whenever he can let his mind wander toward that subject that men seem to think about most.And chances are he’ll be going crazy in anticipation of the next time he can put his loving touch all over you. Best wishes for the New Year!