6 Question to Ask Before having a Girlfriend

Someone rightly said, “Having a girlfriend is a responsibility, not a privilege and your job is to keep a smile on her face”.

Well, who wants to stay alone every day when your friends have that someone special who can talk to them when they are sad or lonely or be a part of their happiness? There might be times when you are lonely and think about all this. Jumping to a conclusion and having someone who actually creates problems rather than solving can be a very bad idea.

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You can be the lucky one of having someone so special who’ll actually be your partner in crime in so many things. Doesn’t this sound like a dream come true? Hold your thoughts right there and focus on the questions mentioned below that will help you introspect whether you actually want a girlfriend or not.

  • Why do you want a girlfriend? - The very thing that you need to ask yourself is do you really need or want a girlfriend? Why so? Is it because you are lonely and need someone to talk to or just because all your friends have girlfriends? The actual reason behind having a person in relationship with you is finding someone special who’ll be your true companion in all the troubled as well as happy times. The other reasons are not worth even entertaining.
  • Can you afford a girlfriend? - The next big things to ask yourself if you have the time, energy and money to afford a partner? A relationship is easy to make but it takes a lot of nurturing, love, care, affection, time, and much more aspects to keep it on track. You never know how much time she expects from you or with all the special days like her birthday or days like Valentine’s Day, you would have to spend a lot of money. Do you have all this to spend on her? If you are someone who’s independent and can afford, you can afford a girlfriend as well.
  • Do you know how to make a girl happy? - You might have had a sister who threw all the tantrums at you but you ignored her just because she was your sister. However, all the girls are alike. They need pampering, love, time, gifts, security and also freedom (personal space) to survive in a relationship. You might give her all these but still, she might not be happy. Why so? Probably because you gave her a lot of personal space which she misunderstood as you don’t have time for her. Likewise, a perfect balance of all the above is necessary.
  • Do you look good to have a girlfriend? - Dressing well is an absolutely essential aspect that lets the girl see you, admire you and feel good about the fact that her guy looks absolutely stunning. Whether it your branded jacket or your men’s underwear that shows when you bend, everything counts in looking good. Make sure you dress well in order to be noticed by girls around you.
  • Are you ready to give up your freedom? - Last but not the least is the question that talks about something you adore much more than anything. What can be more special to a guy would be than his freedom? Well, when you’ll have that someone special in your life, it would be your responsibility to spend quality time with her. Talking on the calls or texting or even using other ways to stay connected with each like Skype would be a mandatory thing but something that is not said-out-loud. In that due course, you’ll not be a free bird who does what he wants to or makes plans with his friends to hang out like you do now. Being in a relationship would call for the commitment that sacrifices your freedom up to a limit.

Having read these important questions, you need to introspect and figure out whether you really need a partner or not. Having a partner is not a passing affair, it is a commitment that takes a lot of effort. Think about it, decide and think again, then move forward in that direction.

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