Has it ever happened to you that after dressing, you look in the mirror but do not recognize the reflection? You recognize the face and the body, but you do not really see yourself. And you realize that the clothes you wear are far from what you really want to reflect on your image.
Go through a similar situation
Usually, it is not intentional, it just happens. Some leave their style aside because they have left themselves aside and taken other roles, or simply let themselves be carried away by a busy schedule, a transition in their life, lack of inspiration or simply laziness. It can also happen that they have never had a clearly defined style and that each day that passes they feel more lost about it.
When your style deviates from what you are, you are not projecting the best version of yourself
Remember that the clothes you wear can influence your mood, how you feel and the way you perceive yourself, as well as how others perceive you. Dressing us predisposes us to a series of thoughts, emotions, and ways of acting. I invite you to read How the costumes affect the way you feel and what you believe you are able to manifest in your life
What do you do when you feel you have lost your style? It is time to reflect and TAKE ACTION, although you must understand that shopping is not the solution.
The real solution is to reconnect with your essence, with who you are, with what makes you unique and what you love!
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As you discover how beautiful you are (and I do not mean just outside), concentrate on your virtues, on what makes you so special, you focus on discovering what are those things or activities that fill you with joy, you will enjoy who you are This discovery will make you feel better and more confident about yourself, it will also help you to create your personal style. I invite you to read Why loving yourself is essential to create your style
In the measure that you love yourself, your style and what you reflect abroad changes.
When we feel valuable and open to receive the best of life, not only will we feel more satisfied internally, but it will also be reflected in our exterior and may even positively affect our interpersonal relationships and what we attract to our lives.
A good way to start is by taking valuable time for yourself, to pamper yourself or do something you like. In this case, I recommend meditation, this will allow you to reconnect with yourself and is necessary to maintain a mental and emotional balance.
The meditation can last 5, 10, 15 minutes or whatever works for you, the ideal is that you take out a space once a day to do it, you will see how your mind rests, improve your health, your well-being, recharge your energy, find the inner peace that you need and all this, will be reflected in an improvement of your interpersonal relationships and with yourself.
Begin to inspire you to change your style ...
After meeting yourself, accepting yourself as you are and rediscovering your inner being, it is time to reflect how wonderful you are on the outside.
A perfect place to look for inspiration are social networks (especially those that are focused on images), every day we see thousands of looks that we like and these can be a starting point to create your style, the idea is not to copy them, but to inspire you in them.
You can open a Pinterest board, and in it, save those outfits that are aligned with your being, your current lifestyle and the one you aspire to, your vision of life and the message you want to project, these are the basis to start creating a style aligned to what you want to manifest in your life.
It's time to go to your closet and create that look that will take you to the next step and reach your goals!
Start by taking all your clothes out of your closet. Do it better on a free day and calmly, so you can have enough time to do it right and be sure you checked every last garment.
Try each one of the garments, you will realize that there are garments that you had forgotten and it may surprise you how good you are today.
Classify the garments into two groups
In the first place what you are sure to use and in the second what you are going to get out of the closet, it is very important to clean. According to the law of attraction for new things to come into our lives, we must prepare a space to receive them, in this case, if we want a renovated wardrobe, we must prepare it by doing a good purification and cleaning of our wardrobe.
Start to build possible looks with your clothes, this will help you a lot to visualize what you have and what you need. This way you will define how to use some clothes that you never used because you did not know how to combine them, in this way you will discover the way to include them in your look more frequently.
The steps above will help you discover what you need, and you can organize your shopping list.
And you're ready to achieve the style you want!
Our life is renewed every day and therefore it is inevitable that our personal style evolves. Today I invite you to start a process of self-discovery, discover what you like, what your passions are, what your strengths are and most importantly what makes you happy and fills your soul, then creates a style that connects with everything previous, that is unique and with which you can show the world who you are and where you are going.
Have you ever felt as if your style was far from what you really are? I would love to know!